Often times, the husbands start having anxiety and women get worried about the blame falling on them. Actually, when it happened to me, my son was just about to be born and my wife was going crazy because I was not THE guy she use to know. She was freaking out. She actually started blaming her self because of the pregnancy condition. I was really worried.
You are not to blame! The anxiety happens because of the upcoming uncertainty. I love my wife a lot, but I was so afraid for her and the baby that I could just not let go. Yes, us man, don’t like to admit the weakness, but that is the fact.
That is why it is so important to be open with each other. Don’t let the things build up. Get to the core of the problem right away. You are married, you are the two soul mates, and the miss communication can cause the two of you to get a divorce. Husband with an anxiety has an issue, issue that can be fixed while talking to each other.
Many new couples actually have this issue to. They talked about the marriage and the ways they mapped out the lives they wanted to lead. Than all of a sudden, bam…Huge issues such as I don’t really want the kids.
My friend Susanne, had that issue. She was married for about a month when her husband started having anxieties and actually said that he was not sure about them and the relationship. Remember, she was just married for a month.
The prior to marriage, they talked about having kids, buying a house, the areas they wanted to live. And now all of a sudden, the unsure about us, came about, I am not sure I want the kids and so many other this. It is a husband anxiety that has to be cured by the communication.
